We haven’t talked in 5 years but we saw each other about 3 years ago and she immediately smiled and gave me a hug. Well…a few nights ago I sent her a friend request on myspace with a message saying "Hey, remember me?"
She accepted my friend request, and I messaged her saying "Hey, Katy, I accidentally came across your profile and I was like "Hey! That’s that one girl who used to float by me everyday at the waterpark!" Hahaha…that was a great summer. (I’m assuming you do remember me since you accepted my friend request). So, what have you been up to for the past…FIVE years? ;)"
Then she replied back a couple hours later saying "hahahaha heeey! yeah i remember you! lol i havent been up to much, just busy with school adn stuff! how about you!?"
So…is she excited to hear from me? We went out on one date when she was 14 and I was 16. Now, she is 19 and I am 21.
I replied back to her "haha…I haven’t been up to too much either…lately! School has kept me pretty busy. So, how is college life?"
I got on myspace a couple days ago and it says that she read my message. However…She didn’t comment or message me back. She talked to her friends though on myspace. So…what gives? I thought she was happy to hear from me? Why would she not repsond back to me? Anyway…
Well…I just sent her another message today saying "Hey Katy, are you enjoying you week off from school? What did you do for Thanksgiving?"
Well…she read this message too, but she still didn’t reply back.
She fills out these polls though on her bulletin, and she always says that she cried today and that she is "having the worst f*cking day ever." Should I send her a message saying "Hey, sorry you had a bad day. Try to crack a smile every once in a while, k? Cheer up, Katy! :)" I just want to be friends with her….Girls, would it make her happy if I sent that message to her, or does she want me to leave her alone forever?
I don’t think MySpace is the best way to rekindle an old friendship. If you continue to persist and she never replies, then that means she doesn’t want to talk. But give it some time. It would make sense that if she’s interested in getting back to old times, she would appreciate your messages and reply right away. You would if it were you, right? So, it doesn’t hurt to try, but don’t be surprised if she doesn’t want to here from you. Things do change in the course of time. I do believe that the absolute best and healthiest way of growing together in a relationship is when you spend time with the person IN person. Keep it in mind for future reference.
wutupw/that | Dec 01, 2008
she probably doesnt wnat the extra attention right now. the best thing to do is wait and if she doesnt end up messaging you back than just shove it off. make her wanna talk to you or else you seem desperate and creepy.
The Princess
| Dec 01, 2008
Just leave her alone…
If she messages you back that’s cool,
but you honestly don’t know this girl:
People change soooo much in five years.
M-L-E | Dec 01, 2008
wait for her to answer you before you bombard her with your messages. maybe she just doesn’t feel like talking.
lexie | Dec 01, 2008
If I were you I would stop trying so hard. If she wants to talk to you she will return one of the other messages. If you keep sending them although she hasn’t even answered your previous ones she will probably get annoyed.
huntersmom | Dec 01, 2008
no. she doesn’t want to talk to you anymore. she was being nice by accepting and responding. she wants you to get the hint.
faithreleasedjoy | Dec 01, 2008
You may be coming on too strong. Back off for a few days and see if she comes back to you. Sounds like she has something going on in her life right now anyway if she cries everyday. I think if she wants to talk to you she will make an effort in the near future.
Libragal | Dec 01, 2008
i really dont know but i would say send the masaage
coolgirl | Dec 01, 2008
What do you really want from her… Leave her alone
Beautiful | Dec 01, 2008
just from a personal experience when you start talking to a guy friend again after a long time it’s nice if they don’t bombard you with questions, just send her a message now and then and must likely she reply sooner.
emandy17 | Dec 01, 2008
By the bulletins, it sounds like she doesn’t want to be bothered. I say leave her alone for a bit (at least until she cheers up some) and then give it another try. Don’t send her too many messages if she continues to not respond. It might get a little on the annoying side.
jenn. | Dec 01, 2008
give her a week or so, then send her one message, if she doesnt answer than she probably doesnt want 2 talk 2 u at the time being, sry dude, good luck
Emily F | Dec 01, 2008
Leave her be for a while. If she still hasn’t responded in several weeks, send another light-hearded message. DO NOT message her anything at all in the near future. Don’t be that guy…
sskeels15 | Dec 01, 2008
hmmm…parts of what you wrote make me think you are a stalker. Parts of it seem reasonable. Parts of it say you are really lonely. Do you get out of the house much? Join a club, get a second job, look on a local website about volunteering locally.
I think that is a long time for her to be AWOL if she was interested.
Water | Dec 01, 2008
o gosh boy give her some space to breathe reading her bulletins watching her leave comment to her other friends then telling her about it not to be mean but it make you seem like a stalker just because you want to talk to her doesn’t mean you have to message her every day wait for her to message you for once then you’ll see if she’s interested or not
|Faith| | Dec 01, 2008
yea send it she might just be really busy
jadell | Dec 01, 2008
Awe that’s so depressing. :"(
She’s probably just really kinda paranoid (really no offence), and you’re just being nice and she probably just thinks you’re being annoying and/or clingy. And that’s a really cute message but since she already thinks you’re clingy, you probably shouldn’t send it or she’ll think you watch her in her sleep, too! Hope things with her get better.
Pennie Papercut | Dec 01, 2008
For the first part, yeah she probably was excited to year from you.
About her not msging you back, she might have been caught up in something and forgot to msg back. It happens. or maybe she was too lazy.
If she’s filling out polls that show that shes upset, she won’t be in the mood to talk to anyone about anything else.
Just don’t msg her about it. It’ll make you seem like your constantly on her page.
I don’t think she wants you to leave her alone forever. Just leave it alone till she msgs you back. It might annoy her if you keep sending her msgs. Besides you guys just started talking again after 5 years.
SJ | Dec 01, 2008
Well, to make her happy again yes send it. Most girls are shy around boys they like even if they’re e-mailing each other. I did the same thing In 11th grade and yet now we r married and happy together. Have a great life, live long live happy is wat i always say!!
Mikayla Nichole | Dec 01, 2008
I think that you shouldn’t message her about it. She probably is having a tough time lately, for whatever reason, and isn’t in the mood to message you at the moment. Cool off for a little while, and wait until she messages you back. If it’s been like 3 weeks to a month since she last contacted you, try talking to her again. But don’t bug her about it. It’s possible she still like you, but you have to get the signal that she’s not ready to reply quite yet.
Missy | Dec 01, 2008
She probably doesn’t want you to leave her alone forever, but it might not be wise to send her yet another message quite yet.
Leave it alone for a couple of weeks and then message her back. The reason that she might be having the "worst fucking day ever" is because of boy problems, and she probably doesn’t want to talk to any boys. It also might be something else.
Don’t stop talking to her for good. Maybe in a few weeks just send her a message like, "Hey, how are you? Want to meet up sometime?" Or something like that.
Sydney | Dec 01, 2008
NO…
look think about it this way, see sometimes whan someone annoys you, you eventually stop answering those messages. im really sory bud, but the message she sent you back looks like she wasnt soo exxcited.
Sorry.
Ana-idk my bff jojo?-ILY
| Dec 01, 2008
leave her alone for a while.
fierce&fabulous | Dec 04, 2008
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